Category: Blog
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2020
This has been a really interesting year, there has been so many high accompanied but too many lows. It took a toll, on our mental health, finances, relationships, way of life and on. But, by the grace of God we are nearing the end of this year. So I’d like to take this time to
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Haitian Men
This is weird, because this is coming during a time where I’ve seen one of the worst traits of men, specifically Haitian men. Backstory, this Haitian dude dated a girl named Evelyne Sincere for about a year and then: raped her, killed her and left her in the streets on a pile of trash after
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A Quarantined Date Night
My sister felt that it would be a good idea to have a date night for my parents. Clearly, I wasn’t on board but she ran the plan by me and I was like, ok whatever. What I didn’t realize was the impact that this night would have on my parents. So the day comes,
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Finding Your Own Love
I watched the Red Table Talk interview between Jada and Will Smith regarding Jada’s relationship with August. Regardless of what any of us think, the only opinions matter are those of the ones involved. However, I will say that I don’t think that Will is as over the situation as he claims. Yes it was
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Change
Change is scary, sometimes unwanted and yet inevitable. Change can be subtle or drastic depending on the factors. Change in a relationship can either help the relationship grow or fail. You’re not the same person forever, that’s just fact. As we go through life, we experience different circumstances that switches our way of life or
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Marriage
It’s after midnight and I’ve just finished an episode of NCIS where McGee finally proposes to Delilah. Of course, my emotional self tears up a little because it’s love and it’s meant to be. And it got me thinking because this is a question I’ve been analyzing for months now. Why do people get married?
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What are we?
A dreaded question for both parties involved. The women (who is usually the one asking) doesn’t want to feel stupid so she’ll ask. The men don’t usually want to answer that question because a) they don’t know the answer/what they want b) they don’t want to hurt your feelings by being honest. Someone had come
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Journey to Love
So I’ve been single for about 3 years now and honestly it’s been on purpose. Much as it pains me to admit it, my parents were right I was jumping from relationship to relationship. The issue was, I didn’t know who I was. With every relationship I was trying to fit this mold of who
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The Secret – Part 2
Respect and value. I guess they go hand-in-hand, you will respect someone you value. But you can also respect someone without them having value in your life (that’s not what this is about). Value is when someone sees beyond what the rest world sees, they see you: who you are on the inside. For example:
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The Secret – Part 1
To attracting a woman is simple. It’s not about how good you look or how fine you smell, though that does help. In reality, every woman wants the same thing: to be appreciated. Appreciated in the sense that: you value her opinion, you respect her views, you see beyond her body. You listen and follow
Lisa Consults 