Submit: a verb. Merrian-Webster dictionary tells us that it means to defer to or consent to abide by the opinion or authority of another. This word has been used in history as a means of control, most quoting the Bible without reading things through. It has gotten such a negative connotation that even in church we want to argue that word. We’ve always heard “wives … Continue reading Submit?
So there’s this guy that I like. Liked him for a while but it’s always been an internal battle. I’ve prayed over it, asked for signs, got answers and I still go back and forth in my mind. Recently we were talking, and as I am relearning him, this question popped up in my head. Now I don’t want to confuse the man further so … Continue reading How do you love?
Controlled and disciplined in the eyes of the world
But when there’s no one else around
Man oh man Continue reading Can you handle that?
As I was falling asleep, this came to me so I had to just share. I love Korean and Chinese drama series, love them wholeheartedly. If you have never watched one, I would recommend: Strong Girl Bong-soon for Korean and Go, Go Squid for Chinese dramas, to start. Strong Girl Bong-soon is about this woman who has a lot of strength which is passed down … Continue reading K-Dramas/C-Dramas
This is weird, because this is coming during a time where I’ve seen one of the worst traits of men, specifically Haitian men. Backstory, this Haitian dude dated a girl named Evelyne Sincere for about a year and then: raped her, killed her and left her in the streets on a pile of trash after asking for a ransom. For more information, click here. The … Continue reading Haitian Men
Change is scary, sometimes unwanted and yet inevitable. Change can be subtle or drastic depending on the factors. Change in a relationship can either help the relationship grow or fail. You’re not the same person forever, that’s just fact. As we go through life, we experience different circumstances that switches our way of life or alter sour point of view. We learn about ourselves and … Continue reading Change
It was a Sunday night in late November, early December, about 10 p.m. when I first saw him. I don’t remember what I was wearing but I was definitely not dressed to my best potential. However I recall, he was wearing dark grey sweatpants with a red hoodie and a hat … Now that I think about it, I think I had on sweatpants and … Continue reading How I met my boyfriend
Dating is the art of getting to know someone better, someone who you are considering committing yourself to or have decided to commit yourself to. Being in a relationship is a commitment and comes with a title. Think of it as stages that sort of intertwine. There’s the “talking” stage where you’re kind of getting a feel for the person. You’re interested but not sure … Continue reading Dating vs. Being in a Relationship
It’s a total lack of trust So here’s what happened, during my birthday week celebration my parents went on their first roller coaster ride. After the ride my dad said “I thought I was gonna fall, but after the first dip I didn’t fall and I knew I would be okay.” Fast forward to tonight, I just watched “nobody’s fool” with my sisters and it … Continue reading Why we scream on roller coasters
How to shoot your shot? If you’re shy, the best thing would be to throw that shyness out the window. However, if timidity is just a part of your personality here are some tips. Directly ask for his/her number (preferably in person, I know it scares you but you can do it). Start a conversation: ask questions you want to know the answer to ex: … Continue reading Shoot Your Shot