Lisa Consults

DO

• Meet at a neutral/mutual yet comfortable space
  • Public such as a diner, park
• Drive yourself (if you can)
• Text someone you trust your location
  • Yes, even if your date isn’t a complete stranger
• Wear comfortable yet attractive clothing
  • Shave your legs even if he doesn’t see them
  • Wear cute flats or low platform shoes
• Make sure your phone is well charged and the location for meetup has good connection
• Pray
• Enjoy yourself
• Keep the kiss simply and swift (best not to confuse lust, if you’re really trying to create a connection)
• Avoid dark alleys
• Bring a sweater or light cardigan
• Bring cash (for tip, parking, etc.) it’s good to be extra prepared
• Set a deadline to be home by

DON’T

• Try out a new dress on the first date
• Text the night away (talk to each other)
• Talk politics or religion (they tend to mar your view forever)
• Talk about overly personal things
• Talk about your ex (you’re not over them if you bring them up)
• Drink excessively (alcohol loosens the tongue too much)
• Try to impress them (be yourself) – originality is attractive and there’s only one you
• Have sex the first time you go out – yes it can be difficult especially when sparks are flying but try not to
• Go somewhere overly fancy – like poker never show your best cards first 😉