It would be wrong and unfair to put all the blame on your partner for a failed relationship. A little while after my breakup last year, a friend told me something I wasn’t ready to hear. “You chose that person.” Continue reading Taking Responsibility
Submit: a verb. Merrian-Webster dictionary tells us that it means to defer to or consent to abide by the opinion or authority of another. This word has been used in history as a means of control, most quoting the Bible without reading things through. It has gotten such a negative connotation that even in church we want to argue that word. We’ve always heard “wives … Continue reading Submit?
So there’s this guy that I like. Liked him for a while but it’s always been an internal battle. I’ve prayed over it, asked for signs, got answers and I still go back and forth in my mind. Recently we were talking, and as I am relearning him, this question popped up in my head. Now I don’t want to confuse the man further so … Continue reading How do you love?
Inspired by K-dramas and a couple I know. A selfless love Continue reading Just Because
Share your reasons why you appreciate each other, to each other, aloud. Do something you both like, together. Plan your next trip, as a couple. Pray together Express your wishes, hopes and expectations of each other Solve or do a puzzle Cook together Although Valentines Day is a made up thing to push consumers to buy more, the basis is still love. You don’t have … Continue reading 7 Things to do on Valentine’s Day
I watched the Red Table Talk interview between Jada and Will Smith regarding Jada’s relationship with August. Regardless of what any of us think, the only opinions matter are those of the ones involved. However, I will say that I don’t think that Will is as over the situation as he claims. Yes it was her transgression but it affected him just as much even … Continue reading Finding Your Own Love
It’s after midnight and I’ve just finished an episode of NCIS where McGee finally proposes to Delilah. Of course, my emotional self tears up a little because it’s love and it’s meant to be. And it got me thinking because this is a question I’ve been analyzing for months now. Why do people get married? Backstory: between December and January two of my very close … Continue reading Marriage
To attracting a woman is simple. It’s not about how good you look or how fine you smell, though that does help. In reality, every woman wants the same thing: to be appreciated. Appreciated in the sense that: you value her opinion, you respect her views, you see beyond her body. You listen and follow through. I had a guy take me on a date … Continue reading The Secret – Part 1
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